Have you ever heard of the Handel Group? Well, I hadn’t until I had the pleasure of reading the talented Amy Dubois Barnett‘s book, Get Yours, which I loved and will be reviewing soon.
Amy spoke so highly of the Handel Group’s life coaching services that I decided to reach out to them for an interview (post coming soon!) for the Beauty on the Inside series here at Beauty 365. The Handel Group’s newsletter (which I highly recommend subscribing to) recently featured the below 4 Tips for Finding “The One” for everyone who is single and ready to create a relationship they can be proud of.
1) Note who you are dating now, if you are not impressed, go to work on YOU. You reflect each other.
2) A relationship that’s built to last has no room for “I don’t want to talk about it.” If that exists in your relationship, change it…
3) Understand your history, it has great themes and clues about what needs to shift – especially if you want to be “Done Dating.”
4) You don’t need to find some rare, ideal person whose perfection circumvents all that’s wrong with you. You do have to design a relationship with someone you admire, who is ready to get to work with you.
So, what do you guys think?
Tips 1 and 3 speak to me the most. Understanding of self, personal history and how we relate is so important in order for us to create what we want in all relationships, especially the closest ones.
Food for thought!